I DO NOT KNOW YOU
The phrase “I do not know you” carries profound significance in Scripture, particularly in Jesus’ teachings about the Kingdom of God. This declaration, found in several Gospel passages, serves as a stark warning to those who claim to follow Christ but fail to live according to His teachings.
In the parable of the ten virgins (Mt 25:1-13), Jesus illustrates the importance of spiritual readiness. The five foolish virgins, unprepared for the bridegroom’s arrival, hear the devastating words: “Amen, I say to you, I do not know you” (Mt 25:12). This rejection stems not from unfamiliarity, but from a lack of genuine relationship and obedience to God’s will.
The Catholic Church teaches that this parable emphasizes the need for vigilance and active faith. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church states, “The Lord asks us to be watchful. He comes at an hour we do not expect” (CCC 2849). This watchfulness involves more than mere belief; it requires a life lived in accordance with Christ’s teachings.
Jesus further elaborates on this theme in Luke 13:24-27, urging His followers to “strive to enter through the narrow gate.” Here, He warns that many who assume their casual association with Him is sufficient will be turned away. The master’s response, “I do not know where you are from,” echoes the rejection in Matthew’s parable. This passage underscores that superficial knowledge of Christ or participation in religious activities is not enough for salvation.
The Gospel of Matthew provides another sobering warning: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven” (Mt 7:21). Jesus goes on to say that even those who prophesy, drive out demons, and perform mighty deeds in His name may be rejected if they do not truly know Him and follow God’s will.
These teachings align with the Catholic understanding of faith and works. As St. James writes, “faith of itself, if it does not have works, is dead” (Jm 2:17). The Church teaches that authentic faith necessarily manifests itself in loving obedience to God and service to others.
St. Paul echoes this sentiment in his second letter to Timothy, reminding us that “the Lord knows those who are his” (2 Tim 2:19). This knowledge implies an intimate relationship, not just intellectual assent or outward religiosity.
REFLECTION
For us as Christians today, these passages serve as a powerful call to self-examination and renewed commitment. We are challenged to move beyond superficial faith or mere religious observance to cultivate a deep, personal relationship with Christ. This relationship should transform our lives, leading us to actively seek and do God’s will in all aspects of our existence.
Let us strive to live in such a way that when we stand before the Lord, we will hear not “I do not know you,” but rather, “Well done, good and faithful servant” (Mt 25:21). May we remain vigilant, nurturing our faith through prayer, sacraments, and acts of love and service, so that we may truly be known by Christ and welcomed into His eternal kingdom.